As 2017 comes to a close we are grateful for the opening
of our second office in Long Beach. And
in 2018 we will celebrate Soul Restoration Project’s 10th
anniversary! We celebrate the growth
that has come from deep and steady work.
We thank you – friends, colleagues, pastors and clients -- for your
contribution to our work.
One of our greatest goals at SRP is to help individuals,
couples and families have faithful and intimate relationships. Much of this work has to do with working
though wounds and blocks that impact their capacity to slow down, trust and in
all ways develop healthy relationship.
A significant focus of SRP is working with those struggling
with sexual addiction, their partners and other victims of traumatic sexual
experiences. Don Diva, Arsen Muradyan
and Andy Park are trained Sexual Addiction Therapists who help sex addicts and
their partners recover healthy sexuality and emotional functioning.
I (Catherine Morrill) and Andy Park treat trauma
sufferers with various modalities, including EMDR (eye movement desensitization
and reprocessing). EMDR (www.emdria.com)
helps individuals revisit and transform traumatic experiences so as to foster healing
and resilience. Several of our interns
will be trained in EMDR in 2018. We seek
to keep abreast of the advances in the fields of trauma and sexual
addiction.
This fall the issues we deal with regularly at SRP
were in the news and culture in an unprecedented way. The #metoo
movement gave women the courage to voice their stories of sexual harassment or
trauma. As women voiced their
experiences, the #metoo movement led
to the firing of a number of big names. I
keep wondering what stories will surface next.
I hope this conversation will reorient people to long for honorable and
faithful relationships rather than instant gratification. And I hope and pray victims will experience healing.
One word has been capturing my attention:
FIDELITY. What a beautiful word! Fidelity is defined primarily as valuing and being
faithful, often regarding one’s spouse but also extending to an idea or
organization. The word comes from the
Latin root, fides. Words with this root
have something to do with being faithful.
It is the same root found in the words confident (faith in self) and the
verb to confide (faith in the other).
Fidelity has its own reward: it creates the trust and
stability necessary for closeness. And
fidelity has its own difficulties. Remaining
faithful necessitates facing the challenges of relationship difficulties, disappointments
and loneliness. It entails feeling
feelings and doing difficult relationship work that we would probably prefer to
avoid and that we may not know how to do.
Remaining faithful also doesn’t mean a relationship will (or should)
last. Nonetheless learning to remain faithful
to others is good for the soul. It fosters
wholeness.
This year, as I consider the Christmas story, I think
of Joseph, whom some have called the hidden man of Christmas. I think of Joseph’s fidelity to Mary and how
he chose to trust Mary and God when he could have recoiled at the strange and difficult
path ahead. He chose Mary and God above self-promotion
or entitlement. How different our
history is because of the fidelity of Joseph.
At SRP we seek to help our clients find the healing
that enables fidelity and that produces wholeness.
We
– the SRP staff – are thankful
for you who have joined with us on this journey.
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